Is pleasing others hindering performance?
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June 5, 2019 - Is pleasing others hindering performance? Are you so busy pleasing others in your life that you are not able to give your best to what you want to be doing? Do you feel pulled in all directions at work with what is being demanded upon
you? Do you feel distracted at home, because of everyone vying for your attention? Are you feeling unsatisfied and ungratified by your progress to-date on all that you desire? Do you feel that you could give so much more if only you didn’t have so many others needing your focus and assistance? There is a difference between giving and pleasing, and if you answered “Yes” to any of these questions, then pleasing has its grip upon you.
Take an MM&I Moment to awaken to the idea that pleasing is actually hindering your ability to give all that you can truly give to this world. Are you pleasing to make someone else happy? Are you pleasing out of an obligation you feel you must fulfill? Are you pleasing because you feel it is an expectation others have of you? What will make you happy?
What will thrill you more than oblige you? What do you expect to realize if only you could be free of what feels like a burden? What are you not receiving as a result of all this pleasing? Knowing the difference between giving from your heart and pleasing will set you free, allowing you to truly be, do and receive all that can be for yourself and others.
WANT TO READ MORE? Then CLICK HERE to read my latest guest blog post on Mike Dooley’s TUT.com, Thoughts Becomes Things entitled “3 Ways Pleasing Others Holds You Back.”
Wide Awake Quote of the Week
"Open your receiving channels to recognize what you are tolerating that no longer serves you. Then change it, shift it, mold it, or let it go.” – Wini Curley
DREAM WIDE AWAKE BLOG: You can always catch the main message from my weekly Wide Awake Wednesday inspirations on my Dream Wide Awake blog which is posted each Wednesday morning, in case you miss the email.
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO WINI CURLEY: Have you ever considered the fact that you cannot have giving without receiving? I had the pleasure of sitting in on Wini Curley Speaks' 20 Days of Receiving Facebook Live series. I encourage you to check it out and listen to each recording to get you to think about how you may be blocking your own receiving and
how it can only magnify your ability to give as well. Thanks Wini for such wisdom and insight!
JOIN ME JULY 31st - STRATEGY MATTERS AT TECH WORKS: Another series of strategy-focused programs will be presented at the new Tech Works facility in Belmont. The program will include a keynote from me, followed by my moderating a panel of CEOs sharing best practices, lessons learned and tips for growing your business. It will be a morning well spent from 8 a.m. - noon. The topics and panelists are as follows:
- Wednesday, July 31: Small Tweaks for BIG Results
- Panelists include: Penny Benkeser, President of ServePro Northwest Charlotte; Tana Greene, CEO of Greene Group, MyWorkChoice, and Road Dog Warriors; Roddey Player, CEO of Queen City Appliance Audio Video. CLICK HERE TO
REGISTER.
- Wednesday, August 21: Money Myths & Magic: Managing and Funding Growth
- Panelists include: Jon Dressler, CEO of Rare Roots Hospitality; Rochelle Rivas, Principal at CliftonLarsonAllen; and a third still being confirmed. CLICK HERE TO REGISTER.
SPECIAL THANKS to the following Supporting Sponsors of the event: BIG Council, BizGrowth Inc., Bridgehouse Law, Employers Association, Lavoie CPA, and TechWorks Gaston. Promotional Partners include SBTDC, Gaston Regional Chamber and City of Belmont.
LUNCHEON SPEAKER AT DRESSLER'S METRO ON SEPT 17: I will be the guest luncheon speaker for the Ellevate Network's luncheon on Tuesday, September 17 at Dressler's Metro. My topic will be "Leveraging You-niqueness." For more information about Ellevate and to register to attend, CLICK HERE. A special note of thanks to LBA Haynes Strand PLLC for sponsoring the luncheon.
NEWEST THOUGHT-LEADER IN THE EVOLUTIONARY BUSINESS COUNCIL: I am honored to have recently been accepted into the Evolutionary Business Council (EBC) as one of its newest members. An invitation-only council, it's purpose is to bring thought leaders of vision
together to expand global change. Its vision is to connect and assist like-minded thought-leaders whose collective mission is to make the world a better place. To learn more, CLICK HERE.
BUILDING VALUE THROUGH PROTECTING UNIQUENESS: Did you know that BizGrowth Inc. has an intellectual property development and management division, GreenCastleIP? Part of building value in your business is protecting its uniqueness. This is so much more than branding. This is a strategy-driven initiative that can pay dividends in the end. To learn more about all we can do to help elevate your
differentiation to a whole next level, CLICK HERE.
INTUITION'S LINK TO BEING IN THE MOMENT: Do you keep telling yourself you need to trust your gut and follow your instinct more? Then read my latest guest blog post to Mike Dooley's TUT blog to understand how the past and future could be affecting your intuition's power.
9 POSITIVE ACTIONS TO EMPOWER YOU DAILY: My "9 Positive Actions" article got picked up by Mike Dooley's TUT Blog, and was recognized as a "Blog Post We LOVE" in his March newsletter to more than 800,000 subscribers. To read, CLICK HERE. To read other articles I have written as a
regular contributor to the TUT blog, including ""5 Ways to be More Fiscally Grateful" and "4 Ways You May Be Letting FEAR Stop You," CLICK HERE.
FEATURED ON THRIVE GLOBAL/AUTHORITY MAGAZINE: I was recently honored to be interviewed by Yitzi Weiner, editor of Authority Magazine and Thrive Global columnist for Huffington Post. To read the interview, CLICK HERE.
EARN YOUR CPE CREDITS: I am thrilled to be an expert providing courses through Executive Education, Inc. and CPA Crossings for continuing education credits to CPAs and CFOs across the country. You can take the webinar, "4 Critical Factors to Create Sustainable Growth," at various dates and times through April 2020. CLICK HERE to learn more. The webinar, "3 Market Analysis Priorities to Drive Profitability," is also available various dates and times through April 2019. CLICK HERE to learn more. These offerings are available through April 2020. "Dream Wide Awake: Overcoming What Limits You" - CLICK HERE to learn more. "Confessions of a Mompreneur: Leadership Lessons Learned" - CLICK HERE to learn more.
NCACPA CPE CREDITS: Are you earning your CPEs in North Carolina through the NCACPA? Here are links to some of my courses available. "Effective Networking: Energize Your Career" offered 7/22/2019. CLICK HERE to register. "Three Market Analysis Priorities to Drive
Profitability" offered 7/18/2019. CLICK HERE to register. "Four Critical Success Factors to Achieve Sustainable Growth" offered 7/11/2019. CLICK HERE to register. "Dream Wide Awake: Overcoming What Limits You in Life" offered 6/13/2019, CLICK HERE to register. "Confessions of a Mompreneur: Leadership Lessons Learned" offered 6/4/2019, CLICK HERE to register.
THE PROFITABILITY QUOTIENT FOR VISTAGE ACROSS THE COUNTRY: I will be facilitating my program, "The Profitability Quotient: Better Decisions, Better Results, Better Bottom Line" to CEO Vistage groups across the country. To follow is what is booked so far, with more being
scheduled.
- May 7th, Charlottesville, VA
- May 13th, Asheville, NC
- May 14th, New Orleans, LA
- June 12th-13th, Buffalo, NY
- July 11th, Lancaster PA
"5 EXPENSES YOU SHOULDN'T CUT" HAS EXCEEDED 10,000 DOWNLOADS: The excerpt of Secret #9 from my book, 50 Marketing Secrets, focused on the five areas growth companies know are investments, not expenses. It was originally featured on entrepreneur.com, and businessinsider.com has now exceeded 10,000 downloads since being published. To understand why it is such a hot download, read the
excerpt HERE!
WE ARE BIZGROWTH INC.: For 35 years, I have been dedicated to helping entrepreneurial enterprises grow and business owners prosper. SLD Unlimited is a beautiful part of our history, and BizGrowth Inc is now the "next level, next idea" go-to company for entrepreneurs nationwide. To learn more about all we do to help entrepreneurial companies build preference, value and worth, go to www.bizgrowthinc.com.
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Yours in dreaming WIDE awake,
Sherre '
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